Thursday, March 22, 2012

March Madness, Indeed or What I Did on my February Vacation

From a professional perspective, March has always been a horrible month.  It is a long month with four full weeks of school with no time off.  Most months have a day here, a day there, a vacation.  Not March.  No.  March just runs on and on and on.  No one is happy.  No one is at their best.  The kids are fidgety.  The teachers are pressured.  Spring is on the way, but it’s just not here yet.  In Massachusetts, our first round of state testing is in March.  It’s just a horrible month.

From a personal perspective, it’s hectic.  Anna, Jack and I all have birthdays in March.  And so do a grandma, two uncles and five cousins.  Many of my friends have birthdays in March and my in-law’s anniversary is in March.  It just never seems to end.  It just keeps going on and on.

How many weeks left?

Part of where the in-laws live
We spent February vacation in Naples, Florida, with my in-laws.  They bought a house in a retirement community.  It’s a nice little place.  It’s got two bed, two bath, a large living area and three outdoor patio spaces.  They have a pool in the complex.  It was a nice trip. They’ve been going down there and renting a place for the past few winters, but they bought this place last year.  They just seem healthier after a winter in sunny warm Naples.

We had initially planned on flying, but had not acted promptly enough to find a decent flight.  We couldn’t find airfare for less than $1800.  Our first thought was to cancel the trip, but then decided that we would drive down.  My in-laws then bought us fare on the Auto Train.

We generally liked the experience of the Auto Train, but I’m not sure we would do it again.  Actually, that’s not true.  I KNOW I wouldn’t do it again. 

Anna playing at a park in Williamsburg
We left Massachusetts on that Friday night that the kids and I got out of school.  We drove to John’s sister’s house in Williamsburg, Virginia, arriving at about 7 a.m.  We spent a good day and evening there and then headed out the next day.

Jack and John ready to go!
The train left Lorton, Virginia, at about 3:30 on Sunday and arrived in Orlando around 8:30 the following morning.    The train, itself, was nice and for the most part, the experience was pleasant.  There was one family on board the train who was miserable, but everyone else was nice.  The crew was attentive.  The food was actually good.  We lucked out and got an early meal time.  Our seats were spacious and our kids were reasonably well behaved.  They weren’t bad at all.  The problem was that neither John nor I slept for more than 60 consecutive minutes on the train.  Jack passed right out at night.  It took Anna a while, but when she did fall asleep, she was out.  John and I just couldn’t do it.  We even swapped seats to try and see if we could get comfortable in the other’s spots.  By the time we got to Orlando, John and I were exhausted.


It was a four or so hour drive from there to Naples.  We made a pit stop at a Dunkin’ Donuts.  The kids changed from their sweatshirts into t-shirts in the parking lot.  And Dunks screwed up my coffee.  I guess that it was part of being so far from New England.  We were all excited about our trip.


Jack and Grandma on the porch
By the time we arrived in Naples, it was in the afternoon.  The kids had time to explore our new digs and the pool.  They were happy as clams.  Anna’s one and only meltdown came that night, but no one can really blame her.  She was in bed by six or so that night and I don’t think the rest of us were far behind.  The next day we just hung out.  We found Jack’s favorite restaurant in Naples, called the Clock.  We also visited the pool and then Naples Pier.


Anna @ Big Cypress
He wasn't the biggest we saw

Another of John’s sisters and her son arrived late that night and the following day, we went into the Everglades to Big Cypress National Park to check out some alligators.  The kids had a blast.  We stopped at this cute little restaurant right on the water in Everglades City.  The food was delicious, even the fried gator bites that Jack loved.
Jack eating 'gator after seeing 'gator
Anna, me and Jennie P.

That night, John, the kids and I went out to eat with a friend of mine.  This was a really special event because I hadn’t seen Jennie in nearly 20 years.  One of the reasons I’d like to go back next year is to see Jennie again.


our camel ride
On Thursday, John and I took the kids, including our nephew, to the Naples Zoo.  It’s a nice little zoo, but there were three highlights.  The zoo houses it’s primates on little islands in the center of a little pond.  You take a boat ride around the islands.  That was pretty cool.  There was also the opportunity to feed giraffes and to ride a camel.  That was pretty cool.  Then we went back to the pool because it was HOT!


On Friday, John and I brought all three kids to the beach.  It was a lot of fun.  First of all there was that novelty of going to the beach in February, but then there was joy in the fact that it was just a nice beach.  We built sand castles, played in the waves, and watched as Anna nearly got eaten by a pelican.  We ended our beach time by sitting around and collecting beach shells. 

On Saturday, we began the long drive home.  We made it to Georgia by about 5:30 that night.  We stopped to eat at Ruby Tuesday in Darien, Georgia.  If you ever find yourself in Darien, Georgia, I highly recommend not eating there.  The best part of Darien, Georgia, is the outlet mall.  It’s actually kind of sad, to be honest.  A lot of the stores were close.  But the Coach store was having an amazing sale.  John got me a couple of early birthday presents.  I’m a lucky girl.


Pit Stop on the way home
We ended up getting ice cream and going back to the hotel.  We were on the road the following morning around 8.  We drove straight through to home, getting here around 2:30 Monday morning.  It was a long drive, but the kids were wonderful.  They handled the trip so well, way better than John and I had thought. Kind of made the idea of road trips not so daunting.

We all came back tan…at least the kids and I did.  The kids were thrilled and loved just about every minute of the trip.  I loved it too and wouldn’t mind going back next year.  My in-laws were happy to see us and they were happy to have time with the kids.  And it was nice to be together as a family.  We all get so wrapped up in what we’re doing when we’re at home that we don’t really spend time together.  The time we do spend together isn’t really together because all four of us have our own agendas.  I like when we’re away from home together.  We just click.  We have so much fun with the four of us.  We all just go together.  I guess it’s a good thing we’re family.

We’re planning on going back next year.  If we do, this is what I would like to do:  spend more time at the beach (we had such a good time there); spend a little time on Fifth Avenue; and maybe go check out the new training facilities for the Red Sox in Fort Myers (or just go back to the beach).

I have had a lot of fun reliving my February vacation that I don’t want to spend any time documenting the long, drawn out shit that’s going on in March.   I think I’ll just end here on my own personal high note.

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